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Become the Leader You Aspire to Be: Living as Your Future Self

Many people set goals and then get caught in the trap of waiting to feel ready or confident enough to pursue them. But high-performing leaders know that the key to achieving greatness is to start living as their future self now—before the results show up.

What Does It Mean to Embody Your Future Self?

Embodying your future self means aligning your current actions, thoughts, and behaviors with the version of you that has already achieved your goals. Instead of waiting for external validation, you start acting as if your success is inevitable.

The Process:

1. Envision Your Future Self: The first step is to create a clear vision of who you want to become. Whether you’re striving for a leadership role, better work-life balance, or a new level of fitness, picture the person who has already accomplished this.

2. Align Your Actions: Next, identify the daily actions and habits that your future self would practice. Maybe it’s setting clear boundaries, prioritizing self-care, or leading with confidence. The goal is to start acting like that person today.

3. Shift Your Mindset: This is where the transformation happens. When you start thinking, “It’s who I am, it’s what I do,” you begin to embody the mindset of your future self. It becomes less about trying and more about simply being.

Practical Exercise:

Think about one major goal you want to achieve in the next year. Now, write down a few key behaviors or habits that someone who has already achieved this goal would practice. What’s one action you can start today to align yourself with this vision?

Success doesn’t just happen—it’s created through intentional, daily choices that reflect the person you’re becoming.

Ready to start living as your future self? Let’s discuss how I can help you get there.

Your coach, cheerleader, and accountability partner,

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Hi I’m Shayla

I’m a mom from Kansas who worked my way up from being an IHOP waitress to a C-Suite executive. I had to learn through trial and error and hundreds of hours of studying how to excel at work and at home.

I found so many other working parents were struggling with either their career or their home life and wanted more. So I built solutions and now offer:

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